I wanted to write this yesterday. But I procrastinated. So I’m writing it today. I’m posting publicly so you can hold me accountable if you see me slipping. 🙂 Happy new year!
- Stop procrastinating, especially when it comes to writing and posting.
- Not think about my kids too much.
- Become a better parent.
- Study Jesus.
- Get a better grasp of Islam.
- Become more decisive.
- Become a much better writer.
- Try to finally figure out love.
- Not care what intellectuals think about my writing because the audience I’m trying to reach is everyday normal people, not academics.
- Be more vulnerable with my emotions even if this includes crying.
- Write more honestly about what I truly think and feel with out fear of what people will think, especially my Evangelical Christian friends.
- Learn Arabic and improve my Spanish and French.
- Resume my commitment to memorizing large portions of text: quotation, book excerpts, parts of the US Constitution and Bill of Rights.
- Study the Ottoman Empire.
- Replace 10 pounds of fat with 10 pounds of muscle.
- Punish my body in the hottest yoga studios and on the steepest hills.
- Listen better.
- Begin video posts even though I don’t have the technology to make them professional.
- Become less tolerant of bigotry, prejudice and xenophobia, especially when I see it in people who claim to be Christian.
- Launch The Christian Muslim Alliance to help (Christians especially) love and understand each other.
- Spend more time helping the homeless.
- Be more of a giver and less of a taker.
- Learn to be selfish because caring for myself isn’t easy.
- Become politically active in the 2016 presidential election.
- Attend synagogue with Elliot.
- Attend Mosque.
- Spend 10 days somewhere on the Italian coast this summer, alone, writing.
- Be kinder to myself.
- Better my understanding of US history.
- Laugh more.
- Become more of who I am and less of want society seems to want me to be.
After 6 decades as a leader in the Southern Baptist Convention, former President Jimmy Carter says enough is enough with its blatant discrimination of women.
Read his riveting reason here.
For the life of me, I can’t understand how Bible thumping Protestants can aim to relegate women to lesser roles in church leadership–and always the male leaders telling women what the Bible says about it.
It’s time the discrimination of women end. In the church, in business, in politics.
“I’m never flying in an airplane because they sometimes crash.” That’s a phobia–a fear based on something entirely irrational.
In the case of Donald Trump, Muslims and Mexicans, those kinds of foreigners. They are the terrorists and rapists and drug dealers.
Over simplification. Blaming.
Small minds lap it up.
After the horrific events in San Bernadino, another oversimplification. Blame. Say inflammatory things. Ratings. Appear pissed of, the boss. You’re fired. Theatrics.
But THE REALITY is that since 911, of the 150,000 murders in the US, 50 of them have been committed by Muslims.
FIFTY OUT OF ONE HUNDRED AND FIFTY THOUSAND.
Trump doesn’t assure the country of this fact. As Jeb Bush said, it’s a candidacy of chaos. Chaos sells.
Instead, to keep us all “safe,” blame 1.7 billion Muslims.
Then ban them.
If we’re going to be afraid of being shot, it’s not going to be a Muslim that’s going to shoot us.
Anyway, here are what a few powerful REPUBLICANS have said since Trump’s comment that we should ban all Muslims from entering the US.
Thank God these leaders spoke up. (If your Muslim, thank Allah they spoke up.)
“He’s a race-baiting, xenophobic, religious bigot. He doesn’t represent my party. He doesn’t represent the values that the men and women who wear the uniform are fighting for. You know how to make American great again? Tell Donald Trump to go to hell.” (Republican Senator Lindsey Graham and former Colonel United States Air Force)
“This is not conservatism.” (Republican Speaker Of The House Of Representatives Paul Ryan)
“I don’t agree… We need to aggressively take on radical Islamic terrorism but not at the expense of our American values.” (Republican Reince Priebus, Chairman of the Republican National Committee)
Heck, Trump’s comment even united Hilary Clinton and Dick Cheney, something few ever imagined possible.
“This is both a shameless and a dangerous idea.” (Hilary Clinton)
“This whole notion that we can just say no more Muslims, just ban a whole religion, goes against everything we stand for and believe in.” (Dick Cheney)
I agree with Senator Graham.
I think today’s hype and paranoia over terrorism has less to do with real dangers and more to do with an paranoid society that is fed by sensationalism in media.
The shooting in San Bernardino was horrible. Deplorable. Just flat horrific. I grieve with the families who lost loved ones. God help them in their grief.
But all this hype? Banning Muslims from entering the country? Give me a break. The chances of dying in a terrorist attack in the US by a Muslim are pretty much zero. I know, I know, ISIS is at war with us. They’re coming our way. It’s just a matter of time.
But, think with me for a minute. Consider what happened after 911.
Or, what didn’t happen after 911.
In 2003 I participated in a terrorism forum at UCLA. It was led by two experts. Paul Bremer, who would lead the war effort in Iraq under President George W. Bush and James Woolsey, former director of the CIA. Bremer was a leading counter terrorism expert. He had worked under Henry Kissinger, appointed Ambassador-at-Large for Counter-terrorism under President Reagan. All the news networks were there. The room was packed. Compelling information was presented to an anxious group of faculty, students, and the greater Los Angeles community.
We were warned. There was imminent threat. Islamic extremists. Al Qaeda. They had the sophistication. They had the technology. These Muslims were part of a vast global terrorist network. These Muslims were strategic, entrenched in cities across the country. These Muslims were going to attack our nuclear plants. Poison our water. Chemical weapons on our city streets.
The next attack would come at any time.
I sat in a packed auditorium with my arms crossed. That means I didn’t buy it. I didn’t buy it back then. And I don’t buy it now.
Because I don’t buy into paranoia. I’m more interested in facts. And reality. And the reality was that every single day—EVERY SINGLE DAY FOR YEARS—you would see these threat level alerts on TV. Remember? There was this little image at the bottom of the TV screen. It stayed there while you watched the news. Green meant low risk, but you never saw green. Yellow meant the risk was “elevated.” Then orange and red and I remember seeing that often.
The country was paranoid because they were being fed by certain politicians and the media.
(And I’d drop off my daughter at school and all these moms would say things like “Oh, it’s so scary…all those Muslims…all those terrorists…I’m afraid to bring my kids to school because I heard on the news that they might target schools…this world we live in so crazy…we’re not safe anymore…I’m not sleeping at night…” Some of my Christian friends would talk about how we’re living in the “end times.” And I’d talk to the dads and a lot of them would say things like “What a bunch of assholes…those fucking losers…we ought to bomb the whole goddamn middle east…we ought to deport all those fucking towel heads…”)
After 911, Osama bin Laden sent warnings. Islam was at war with America. The next attack would make 911 look small. Before Christmas in 2002 he released an announcement. Al Qaeda would be delivering a “Christmas present” on our own soil.
But even with all the hype and all the alerts, nothing happened. The sophisticated covert strategic entrenched terrorists—millions of Muslims who call the USA their home—didn’t even vandalize a building.
I get the microphone.
“Gentlemen, respectfully, tonight you’ve warned us, again, of the imminent threat of Islamic terrorists.”
“You speak of how remarkably sophisticated their network is.”
“You talk about how they are already living here in the US.”
“We’ve been warned by the Bush administration, on news channels, and tonight by you, for nearly two years.”
“BUT NOTHING HAS HAPPENED.”
“If the country is swarming with this sophisticated war machine of radical Islamist jihadists, they either are not as angry with us as you think, or they don’t possess the sophistication.”
“Can you tell us why nothing has happened, not even a random shooting?” (I remember saying the words “random shooting.”)
Secretary Bremer responded. “Well, ahem, they are remarkably disciplined and strategic. They time their attacks to have maximum impact so we need to be prepared.”
The “big one” never came. Not in 2003 or 2004 or 2005 or 2006 or 2007 or 2008 or 2009 or 2010 or 2011 or 2012 or 2013 or 2014 or 2015.
Of course, we give credit to public servants: the various national, state and local agencies. And our allies around the world.
This post is not to deny the real dangers of Islamic extremism.
This post is to show that since 911 all those countless “terrorists” living here haven’t done much. A few shootings here and there.
In fact, since 911 around 50 Americans have been murdered in the US by Islamic extremists.
Since 911 over 150,000 Americans have been murdered in the US by citizens without any ties to Islam. Many of these murderer called themselves Christians. Most used guns.
The truth about Muslims in the US is this. They’ve lived here for decades. Millions of them. Immigrants. Egyptians. Iranians. Syrians. Saudis. Iraqis. Etcetera. In every city. Attending Mosque. College students. Business owners. Working for city governments. Strong families. Raising their children. The children play soccer and do ballet and go to university. They go to school with your kids. They all play on the playground together. They are doctors and restaurant owners and accountants. They are lawyers and own gas stations. They pay taxes.
Thousands fight in our military—fight against other self-proclaimed Muslims who have tried to hijack their religion.
Many American Muslims have died defending our country. Muslims have fought in all major US wars including the Civil War, WWI, WWII, the Vietnam war, and the Gulf War. More than 3,500 Muslims fought in Iraq and Afghanistan. High ranked members of the U.S. military have commented that Muslims are a crucial part of the US armed forces because of their cultural understanding and linguistic skills and cultural understanding.
We need to think about the facts, people.
Because paranoia is easy.
And so is blame.